After reaching the ripe age of 40 and subsequently experiencing a mini mid life crisis (healed by numerous glasses of red wine and much love and laughter) I took some time out to evaluate ‘my life’. Was it time to let go of the mundane responsibilities that heavily weighed me down as my soul was crying out for fun and creativity? Did life have to be this monotonous routine of 9-6, 5 days a week for 50 weeks a year, every year like it had been? I hoped not!!!
Don’t get me wrong the corporate world use to be amazing; the buzz of performing in high profile roles with salaries to match was a dream. I quickly learnt that my passion and commitment could take me very far and so I let it. I showered myself with designer handbags and shoes and a wardrobe fit for the runway, however as the years passed the buzz started to fizzle out, fine dining and wining was becoming a chore and my soul was searching for something less ‘cut throat’ and more personally rewarding. Did this yearning have something to do with my journey onto my spiritual path? Possibly, but what I knew with my whole heart was that I couldn’t ignore the nagging pain that something had to change to make my life more authentic. I knew I wanted to serve others and explored the various ways on offer. I even walked down a few paths trusting that I would know if it was this I was meant to be doing but nothing seemed right.
Then one day the answer came loud and clear while I was deep in meditation. As my mind wondered back and forth while trying to focus on emptiness a voice asked ‘what makes you happy?’. Memories from my childhood came pouring into my thoughts like a movie trailer of my life. I spent the following days jotting down memories of me at my happiest. Funnily enough it was when I was between 5 – 10 years old, when each day beckoned with new experiences.
As children we were embroiled in Bollywood. Our Friday nights would consist of Fish n Chips and the latest Bollywood movie. For me the thrill of watching the heroine sing, dance and change costumes every 5mins was a tantalising feast for the eyes and soul. Fabric colours would explode from the screen as the most beautiful young ladies swirl innocently. Immediately I fell in love with clothes; how they could make you come alive, how strokes of colours on the softest of skins enhanced ones beauty. It filled my heart with excitement and joy, I wanted to be like them, encapsulated in the glamour.
I realised in that moment, while i was in a whirlwind romance with my childhood that I found the answer, I knew what would make me happy… I knew what it was I was destined to do! Did I have the credentials to do this? I believe I do…
I’ve followed fashion for as long as I have known. Not having the average figure in my teens I could only pine over looking that hot in an outfit so I’d constantly style my family and friends. I loved to shop and everyone loved taking me as back then plus size clothes didn’t really exist. I had a passion and just because I couldn’t play the main role in my visions, didn’t mean I wouldn’t enjoy making others looking ‘FIERCE’ in their individual size and style. I’ve played the stylist role throughout my life; my latest project was my sister’s wedding and without being biased or big headed, our cloths were ‘on point’! I was blessed to be asked to style the groom too! The outcome, well I will let you judge for yourself 🙂
Growing up I was fortunate to have the tradition long thick hair so creating beautiful looks and styles came as second nature. I worked in hair salons and learnt the basic skills but was quickly encouraged to seek a more respectable job by my mother who had visions of me becoming a lawyer or doctor, like most asian parents did back in the day. Admittedly I took my time exploring make up, it was only when I hit my 30’s that I wanted to dabble in a little ‘face painting’, as they say, lol.
So here I am, ready to embark on the most incredible journey of my career as a Asian Style Consultant and MUA delivering a unique and exquisite styling experience that will leave you wondering how you ever survived without me 😉 From wardrobe to hair and make up I’ll be on hand to assemble the most gorgeous looks to suit any occasion. Together we will carefully create your unique style bible, tailored to your own personal requirements.
I’m finally at the last hurdle of my journey before I officially launch myself, I’m so excited I’m ready to burst! Watch this space, my next blog I’ll be sharing how the final hurdle went.
Love Ange x
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